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Post by charles finley. on Jan 28, 2008 1:50:02 GMT -5
Well, okay. So, it's like this:
I have two friends, right? Well, a couple of months ago, they got into this huge ass fight. They hate each other, and it got to the point where the cops got involved.
Lately, it seems like I can't talk to either of them without them bitching about one person. It goes the same with the people who are on there side - Val, Carlin are on one of the girls side, and they constantly talk sh*t about Meta. Daisy, and a few other of my friends are on Meta's side, and talk sh*t about Erin.
They're dragging me into this whole d*mn fight. I've told them that I just want out of it, and if they're gonna talk sh*t about the other person, rant about it online or something.
They aren't getting the picture.
Now ... It's like, I can't talk to either of them without someone getting pissed. And all I want is to stay out of it. Which, clearly, no matter how many f*cking times I've told them that, they aren't leaving me out of it. (It's actually gotten to the point where I've about screamed at them just to leave me the f*ck out of this and stop talking sh*t about the other person in front of me.)
I don't want to leave any of them - they've been my friends for like, years. Basically since I first moved to Dutch four years ago. But it's like "What the f*ck, you guys? Haven't I told you I just want OUT?"
So, what should I do?
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feelgoodfailure
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Post by feelgoodfailure on Jan 28, 2008 20:35:50 GMT -5
Do a barrel roll.
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Post by Erinul, Mass Ressurected on Jan 28, 2008 22:05:05 GMT -5
If they are pestering you to go on one side or not, then just lay low for a few days or so. It may sound cold, but if they're going to harass you with 'join or we'll hate your guts'-like words, then they may not be your friends anymore, hard as that may seem to be.
Now, since I have not ever been in this situation, I have no absolute way to help you on this. But if they badger you, then just either ignore them for a period of time or just forget about them completely. Remember, people can change over time, and if they start to harass you over something trivial, then they might have very well changed.
I hope I'm making any sense. Sometimes I even confuse myself. :S
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Another thing you can do is try to find ways to get them to forgive them. Try doing something like buying movie tickets for you and your friends. Try to get them to remember what it was like before the fight and make them see that fighting will not solve anything.
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Desertscar
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Post by Desertscar on Jan 29, 2008 9:33:41 GMT -5
Construct MOAR PYLONS!!
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