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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 23, 2008 2:44:33 GMT -5
Wow, I don't normally ask other people for help, but this is quite a touchy subject, I thought I'd get your input. =]
I've decided that I'd like to come out to my ENTIRE school, however, I've had a hard time weighing up all the pros and cons.
I think the main reason for me to come out would be to smash all the gay stereotypes my school has, and I think I'm the right person to do it, cause I think I don't fit into any gay stereotype. =D
However, I also see no reason to come out, there are no other gays (as far as I know) at my school, and even if there were, none would consider me as a choice for potential boyfriend.
I'm currently being an indecisive little b*tch about whether or not to come out.
But I'm not going to end this thread on a "PLEASE HELP NOW" or "You don't have to help if you want".
I do need help, but not badly. Advice is appreciated though. =]
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Post by The Italian Dragon on Oct 23, 2008 6:37:19 GMT -5
Hmmmm, try to look carefully at others and you may see others like you. Just chill with them and ask them your idea, it may work. For the rest I dunno
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Post by Lucille Bluth on Oct 23, 2008 16:55:11 GMT -5
I still haven't come out! Then again with homeschoolers I will get shunned and everybody will hate me. :|
First, tell someone you REALLY trust. See how that works out, then slowly just come out to everyone else. It will be a shock if you come out at once and you might be ridiculed(but then again you might not). So just take it easy and talk to people.
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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 23, 2008 20:29:18 GMT -5
I still haven't come out! Then again with homeschoolers I will get shunned and everybody will hate me. :| First, tell someone you REALLY trust. See how that works out, then slowly just come out to everyone else. It will be a shock if you come out at once and you might be ridiculed(but then again you might not). So just take it easy and talk to people. There is someone who thinks I'm gay, but he said he wouldn't care if I was, I'd probably tell him first. Then slowly move on to other people, lol. I think I could handle the ridicule, unless there was like 300 people doing it! Lol The life of a gay teenager, we all love it. =D
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Post by Lucille Bluth on Oct 23, 2008 20:40:20 GMT -5
You gay guys have it so easy. ;_; It's hard for me to find a femme lesbian/bisexual who is like me! All of them are butch or just not my type in looks. :(
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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 23, 2008 21:06:20 GMT -5
You gay guys have it so easy. ;_; It's hard for me to find a femme lesbian/bisexual who is like me! All of them are butch or just not my type in looks. :( From what I've seen, a lot of lesbian girls are butch, I don't see why they need to think that they have to have a 'male' figure in a relationship. If I go out with someone, I want it to be two men, not a man and man pretending to be very feminine. Lol We don't have it that easy, I don't like those bear ones who are massive and have parc loads of body hair. And I don't really like those camp type ones, who are REALLY effeminate. God, I'm so picky. Lol
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Post by shadowpelt on Oct 23, 2008 21:10:28 GMT -5
It was really hard for me to do, but really you should just come out and say it.
As simple as that :3. It makes it less awkward and dramatizing. Tell people close to you now and then just sorta go from there. You don't have to wear a shirt that says it or anything! Just be who you be!
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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 23, 2008 21:23:53 GMT -5
It was really hard for me to do, but really you should just come out and say it. As simple as that :3. It makes it less awkward and dramatizing. Tell people close to you now and then just sorta go from there. You don't have to wear a shirt that says it or anything! Just be who you be! Lol, yeah. I think the longer I put it off, the harder it will be when I do want to tell people. I could handle people not liking me, but I don't think I could handle the stares, and the snickering, it would cause me to punch them in their faces.
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Post by Lucille Bluth on Oct 23, 2008 21:34:54 GMT -5
Me too man, me too. :( I long for a girly girl but not too girly, kinda like me! Who has manners, dresses nice, etc. I have high standards I guess. We must both be the same person but in different bodies with different... parts. CREEPY.
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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 23, 2008 21:53:44 GMT -5
Me too man, me too. :( I long for a girly girl but not too girly, kinda like me! Who has manners, dresses nice, etc. I have high standards I guess. We must both be the same person but in different bodies with different... parts. CREEPY. Lmao, that doesn't sound that creepy, nor unrealistic, IT COULD HAPPEN! =] My first preference (apart from them being gay) would be for them to have a similar music taste to me, to be brutally honest, if someone listens to sh*t music, I could never be in a relationship with them. But I could make a few exceptions if they melted my heart (not literally, you freaks, lolz). =D
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Post by The Italian Dragon on Oct 24, 2008 10:33:17 GMT -5
and know what ? Being gay doesn't mean that you're an idiot. Here in france we know two friends of my parents who R gay and thy're the coolest persons I ever seen !. So find somebody that you really trust and break this dumb image of the femalish gay boy . Because you're a nice boy as I heard from there ^^
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Post by Lucille Bluth on Oct 24, 2008 17:33:49 GMT -5
You Europeans introduced gay though. So we thank you for that. ;D
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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 24, 2008 22:52:27 GMT -5
and know what ? Being gay doesn't mean that you're an idiot. Here in france we know two friends of my parents who R gay and thy're the coolest persons I ever seen !. So find somebody that you really trust and break this dumb image of the femalish gay boy . Because you're a nice boy as I heard from there ^^ I'd love to visit France one day! So much culture. =] Aw, thanks, I don't get called nice often, lol. =D You Europeans introduced gay though. So we thank you for that. ;D Lmao, we've just stolen it and made it our own now. =D
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Post by charles finley. on Oct 25, 2008 1:48:25 GMT -5
So, you're fully gay now? GOD DAMN, ABOUT FREAKING TIME. XD
Anyways ... uh, yeah, what everyone else said. Pretty much just tell them, and if not, make their lives hell. XD
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Post by lildevil92 on Oct 25, 2008 1:59:42 GMT -5
So, you're fully gay now? g*d d**n, ABOUT FREAKING TIME. XD Anyways ... uh, yeah, what everyone else said. Pretty much just tell them, and if not, make their lives hell. XD Thanks for replying out of YOUR OWN FREE WILL Ash. =D What if I already make their lives hell? I'M ****ED! =D
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