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Post by roselong121 on Jun 1, 2007 2:24:53 GMT -5
Hi, you may know me as Rose in many RP and other things such as the "Ask Rose" thread. I was wondering from my personal life. Now get ready for this. I am currently going out with a great guy but we have yet to go out on an offical date. Heck we have yet to kiss. Shocking ? I have yet to be kissed. I feel like the Forty year old virgin because I'm like the only one who has NBK and am in high school. The wost thing about it is I think I will do something wrong. I think the reason I obsess over J/R so much is because I want that moment to be magical like theirs and K/Rs. Tomorow is our first offical date, we are going to see POTC3. Yes, I know not the most romantic movie but still. I don't think the kiss happens untill after the third date. I'm probably the only person here who has yet to feel that enchanting moment. What do you guys think? Is it better to have experiance by now or, can we "virgins" still make the cut?
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Post by ` SAY WHA ?! on Jun 1, 2007 2:35:14 GMT -5
I have some tips for you:
-Wear hoop earing so he touches your soft hair -pretend not to hear so he can hear you -When the date's over, go get a drink or something -When you're in the door of your house, tell him goodnight and maybe he'll kiss you like in the movies!!!
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Post by roselong121 on Jun 1, 2007 2:51:25 GMT -5
Thanks Rosemary07. I especially like the hoop earring trick.
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Post by ` SAY WHA ?! on Jun 1, 2007 3:09:22 GMT -5
Hahaha...welcome..PM me anytime you need more tips...
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Post by Atecom on Jun 1, 2007 5:37:27 GMT -5
Not to worry, Im in University and i've NBK XD
It happens to some later then others. I guess the longer you wait the more special it is XD
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Post by YFWE on Jun 1, 2007 8:22:38 GMT -5
Yeah, don't worry, you isn't the only one. XD
Well, me for example, I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 11 months now, and in that span of time, we waited to kiss until after about the first month and a half. Why is that?
You see, sometimes, in a relationship, it's better to be more "mysterious" and let things go slowly. If you know everything about that person or have experienced everything you can with that person a mere few weeks into your relationship, what is there left to discover? Nothing. I read somewhere once that, the quicker you accomplish some of these things, the less time your relationship lasts in the long run.
I'm not saying that you should by any means follow this. All I'm saying is that it's worked well for me. And like Atecom said, the longer you wait, the better it is. I can attest to that.
Hope this helps, and good luck!! =]
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Post by feelgoodfailure on Jun 1, 2007 16:21:48 GMT -5
I have some tips for you: -Wear hoop earing so he touches your soft hair -pretend not to hear so he can hear you -When the date's over, go get a drink or something -When you're in the door of your house, tell him goodnight and maybe he'll kiss you like in the movies!!! ...the only part about that i understood was the last one. anyway... i didn't have my first kiss till about a year ago. i've only made out with one person in my life, and i only made out with her three times (of course, this was before i found out i was gay). the first time was before we even dated, i was playing truth or dare with this girl and she asked if i'd ever been kissed, when i told her i hadn't she dared me to kiss her. so i did. and about a week later we started dating and i only made out with her 2 times when we were dating, which was for a couple months. my point is... don't rush into kissing. it isn't even really that big of a deal. ;D
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Post by rosealicous on Jun 1, 2007 16:30:54 GMT -5
well rushing it isn't good, but you should make a good impression of yourself dress nicely stuff like that. don't make the move for the first kiss let him do it. why is it third date? after third date them make the move. but if he makes the move firdt then you kiss him. by the way how does he look?
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Post by charles finley. on Jun 1, 2007 19:38:19 GMT -5
Ask yourself this first. Do you feel like you're ready for it? Or do you feel like you're doing it out of pressure?
For some realtionships ... it takes awhile before you kiss or say I love you and etc. Lewis and I didn't even start saying I love you to each other until our six month ani. And what Kevin said, yeah .. he's got a point on that. Because from what I've seen, most realtionships tend to fail after the first month. I said most, because they've said I love you/kissed too early. At least that's what I think.
If you feel that you're doing it out of pressure, are you sure you want to be doing it? Because your first kiss is speical, and if you have your firist kiss with the wrong person, that memory will haunt you forever. You shouldn't feel pressued to do it just because everyone else has.
Now if you feel that you really want to do it and it's the right time, right place, then do it.
Yeah, you're def. not the only one who has NBK. I haven't been either. xD
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Post by roselong121 on Jun 1, 2007 23:36:36 GMT -5
It's just I feel like such a "outtie". Thanks for all the great advice. We went to POTC3 today. Not any kissing just a bit of flirting. Oh well.
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Post by huntsgirls1fan on Jun 2, 2007 9:00:05 GMT -5
Thanks Rosemary07. I especially like the hoop earring trick. me too. Good lukc sis, and little secret.. *whispers* i havn't been kissed yet eaither.
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Post by ` SAY WHA ?! on Jun 2, 2007 9:01:44 GMT -5
Include me there Alyssa...
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Post by rosealicous on Jun 2, 2007 14:44:46 GMT -5
don't worry about it i think i knoq qhy you kiss on the thrid date. cause it never happensXD. do you think twelve is a good time to be dating? my classmate keeps on asking this girl out but she never agrees REJECTED. so be happy your dating.
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Post by roselong121 on Jun 4, 2007 16:58:17 GMT -5
12 was kinda still a little kid for me. But as for someone else it could be okay.
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Post by Lucille Bluth on Jun 11, 2007 15:33:45 GMT -5
I'm glad you chose not to kiss on the first date! If a guy doesn't kiss you on the first day it shows something-- he's willing to get to know you as a friend before he takes it fast or too far and you end up having to break it off early. Or he's just too shy. :P
I've been kissed, like... once but it was a bad mistake. It was more like a "hook up" and the boy ended up saying he loved me after one day. Luckily, we didn't go to the same High School's so I never saw him and just... didn't call him. When I had a boyfriend in 8th grade, we ended up dating for a week because he said he loved me and I felt awkward/insecure.
The point is, waiting it good sometimes. Learn more about each other, talk about things you have in common, and maybe things you even don't have in common. I'm no dating master-- but I know some pretty basic stuff. XD
So next time you guys go out on a date, just go as friends... it'll make things easier for when you're ready to be in a relationship with him.
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